Your baby at 4 years: milestones, feeding & growth
Typical milestones (a guide, not a test)
Cognitive (learning/thinking)
- Names a few colors of itemsCDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. (2022 revision)
- Tells what comes next in a well-known storyCDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. (2022 revision)
- Draws a person with three or more body partsCDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. (2022 revision)
Language & Communication
- Says sentences with four or more wordsCDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. (2022 revision)
- Says some words from a song, story, or nursery rhymeCDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. (2022 revision)
- Talks about at least one thing that happened during his day, like "I played soccer."CDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. (2022 revision)
- Answers simple questions like "What is a coat for?" or "What is a crayon for?"CDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. (2022 revision)
Movement & Physical
- Catches a large ball most of the timeCDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. (2022 revision)
- Serves himself food or pours water, with adult supervisionCDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. (2022 revision)
- Unbuttons some buttonsCDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. (2022 revision)
- Holds crayon or pencil between fingers and thumb (not a fist)CDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. (2022 revision)
Social & Emotional
- Pretends to be something else during play (teacher, superhero, dog)CDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. (2022 revision)
- Asks to go play with children if none are around, like "Can I play with Alex?"CDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. (2022 revision)
- Comforts others who are hurt or sad, like hugging a crying friendCDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. (2022 revision)
- Avoids danger, like not jumping from tall heights at the playgroundCDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. (2022 revision)
- Likes to be a "helper"CDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. (2022 revision)
- Changes behavior based on where she is (place of worship, library, playground)CDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. (2022 revision)
Feeding
- Avoid whole nuts, whole grapes, popcorn, hard raw vegetables, chunks of meat/cheese (choking). — modify texture <4 years
- Introduce common allergens (peanut, egg) from ~6 months in age-appropriate form — early introduction reduces allergy risk (LEAP/EAT). — INTRODUCE from ~6 months
Play & bonding
Keeping baby safe
- Car: forward-facing harness, then booster per height/weight; always buckled in back seat., Road: teach to hold hands and stop at curbs; supervise near streets., Helmets: for bikes, scooters, and trikes., Stranger & body safety: age-appropriate teaching., Supervise water, playgrounds, and pets.
Sleep
- Ranges are per 24 hours and, for children through preschool, include naps. Individual needs vary. — 10-13
Part of Preschooler: 4 to 5 years.
educational reference only; milestones are general guides — discuss any concerns with a pediatrician. Not a diagnostic tool.